Am I living my own story, or living someone else鈥檚? -Dr. Howard Stevenson

Earlier this year, Dr. J. Derek McNeil sat down for a conversation with one of his life-long friends, Dr. Howard Stevenson, about trauma and resilience, especially as these topics relate to African-American men and boys. Dr. Stevenson is a clinical psychologist who performs research and teaches at the University of Pennsylvania and is the Executive Director of . Throughout his career, one of the questions that has driven Dr. Stevenson鈥檚 research is: Does it matter when we talk to our children, particularly children of color, about race? Understanding not only our individual stories, but the stories of the collective group of people we are a part of, shapes our resilience, capacity to struggle, and ability to thrive.

During their conversation, you鈥檒l hear Dr. McNeil and Dr. Stevenson share findings from their studies on race and resilience, personal stories from their families, and the most surprising thing Dr. Stevenson encountered upon visiting Michael Brown鈥檚 high school one year after his death.

鈥淩esilience as: 鈥楬ow do you navigate adversity within a particular frame or narrative that people have about you?鈥欌�� Dr. Howard Stevenson

鈥淚n this moment there’s a sense of privilege to have a sense of telling your own story as if it is individual, unconnected to a larger narrative notion.鈥� Dr. J. Derek McNeil

鈥淥ur job is to help you fall in love with your own story. When you tell your own story it addresses all the health and well being issues we often struggle with. Who am I? Do I use my voice? Should I shapeshift or not shapeshift? What鈥檚 the cost? In your own narrative you get to make better choices.鈥� Dr. Howard Stevenson

鈥淭raumas that come through the stories that are about you, you know you have to live in them or outside of them or create new meaning in them, and I鈥檓 realizing that鈥檚 a lot of what socialization is about with my family鈥攁ttempts to buffer the collective narrative by giving an alternative narrative and an alternative meaning.鈥� Dr. J. Derek McNeil

鈥淲hat does it take to raise a healthy village? You want the leaders in that village to see both and鈥攂oth you as an individual and as part of the collective鈥攁nd those two don鈥檛 have to be embattled or denied. You hold the individual accountable but also the community accountable to a certain expectation to not swallow the kool-aid of false narratives.” Dr. Howard Stevenson

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