“I sat with a student one day and she said to me, ‘This school takes your whole body.’ Do you really want to get into this? Do you really want to give that much? Learning is collaborative. That means we do it together. That means there is some degree of expertise that we offer. But we are learning together. We also recognize that you bring knowledge. You’re not a blank slate. You’re full of knowledge as well. And if we don’t collaborate with you in that learning process, we’ll miss you and you with us, and we’ll miss some of the pieces that are important to hold. We are robustly Christian, deeply questioning, and profoundly human. This is a great experience to engage life and learning together.”

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Welcome, 2019 cohort!听听

It is August! Which means that the fall term is just around the corner.听 We are thrilled to have you joining us on campus soon. I eagerly anticipate this time of beginning with you.

Here you will find the schedule of events for your first week on campus! There will be opportunities for information, for connection, and for you to breathe as you begin to get acclimated to life in this community. Spouses/partners/families are welcome at all of these gatherings.听 Follow the links throughout the email for more information, including detailed schedules and registration. Note: you will need to register separately for Orientation and (Re)Orientation.

Feel free to ask any questions as you have them.听

Thursday, August 22, 5:00-9:00pm, Golden Gardens

Our annual Welcome (Back) Cookout is a dearly-loved 天美视频 tradition hosted by Student Leadership. We hope you鈥檒l come, meet some of your classmates, and enjoy one of Seattle鈥檚 unbeatable summer nights with us on the beach before the school year gets underway. Student Leadership will be grilling hamburgers, veggie burgers, and hot dogs. Please bring a side dish or dessert to share. Full details are available online

Monday, September 9, 10:30am-3:00pm

Our entire community comes together to welcome, orient, and matriculate new students and their families. New Student Orientation covers logistical details from changing your address in our databases, turning in听 your first assignment* and getting your picture taken for your student ID. The day is designed to introduce you to our community rhythms, to connect you more deeply with each other and with current students through conversations and activities, and to give you time to explore the building and its resources.

Spouses/partners and families (including children) are welcome and encouraged to attend!听 Morning refreshments and Lunch will be provided.听Full schedule, details, and registration are available online

*Your very first assignment as a 天美视频 student is collected at Orientation. Stay tuned to the Matriculate blog to learn more about this 鈥淲ho Am I鈥� assignment.

Tuesday, September 10, 12:00-3:30pm

(Re)Orientation is a time when faculty, staff, returning students, and incoming students gather to (re)connect and (re)orient to the coming year. (Re)Orientation is an important rhythm in our communal life cycle. Participation is required for all students.听 Lunch will be provided. Families are encouraged to attend. Full schedule, details, and registration are available online

Frameworks & Intersections

Wednesday, September 11, 9:00am-2:00pm
Frameworks & Intersections is designed to provide incoming students with context for our learning methods, orient you to the academic resources available to support your learning experience, and introduce you to your first-year Listening Lab groups. Snacks will be provided. Childcare will not be provided.

Schedule:

9:00am 鈥� Listening Lab Orientation
10:00am-12:20pm 鈥� Frameworks & Intersections
12:20-12:50pm 鈥� Lunch
12:50-2:00pm 鈥� Life Cycle Gathering: Generous Read Exercise

on MyCampus to register for this free, but required course.

天美视频 Community Weekend

Each fall we set aside time to celebrate the start of a new year with ritual, play, reconnection, and feasting. Spouses/partners and families are a significant part of our community and are welcome at all Community Weekend gatherings.

Thursday, September 12 | at 天美视频 at 6:30pm. Curated by Sacred Space.

Friday, September 13 | Activities will take place during the day around Seattle, followed by Neighborhood Dinners during the evening. Organized by Student Council and Anamchara.

Saturday, September 14 | at 10am and the Community Cookout immediately following at .

We are ever mindful of you as you lean into this final month of preparation. Stay tuned to Matriculate as our Admissions Team will continue to share timely information and support in the weeks ahead. If there are other ways we can be of help to you in your planning, do be in touch using my email address below.

With Excitement,

Rebecca Shirley, Manager of Student Life Programs

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This post is part of our conversation about the Church鈥檚 relationship to sexuality and sexual orientation. You can also read Kate Davis鈥檚 hope-filled reminder that the body of Christ, though wounded, is not yet broken; Jennifer Fernandez鈥檚 essay about the dangers of conflating Church with Christianity; and Dr. Derek McNeil鈥檚 reflection about global complexity and the pitfalls of ethnocentric theology.

Scrolling through my Facebook feed in the wake of the UMC special session felt like a 21st century experience of attending a public mourning. As a gay Christian man, with many friends who identify both as followers of Christ and members of the LGBTQ+ community, my feed echoed voices of lament. These voices represented numerous denominations, experiences, and political views, but shared a felt sense of a very familiar pain.

One post stood out to me in particular. In an incredibly honest, understated way it mentioned how unnerving it is to have one of the most personal parts of your life turned into a motion to be voted on by people who don鈥檛 know you at all. Something about the straightforwardness of this statement struck me.

In the days since, I have watched voices on every side of the spectrum abandon dialogue and return to the place they feel most safe. For some this is a highly politicized place with high stone walls, and for others it is a place of abstract theology and equally high walls. I understand this response, and I want to leave people the space they need to find safety in the way that makes sense for them.

鈥淚 have watched voices on every side of spectrum abandon dialogue and return to the place they feel most safe.鈥�

For me though, with three years of a graduate education built on the belief in a God who chooses to be present in my story and with me in my pain, I feel a need to simply remain鈥攖o ask that regardless of where we find ourselves, we extend witness to the pain of the communities personally impacted in recent weeks.

I鈥檓 tired. I鈥檓 sad. I鈥檝e carried unspoken weight for my whole life, stayed awake into many sleepless nights, prayed even when I didn鈥檛 know what to say. I鈥檝e wrestled with scripture, my community, and my own heart. I鈥檝e felt the intense tension caused in pitting my emotional and psychological health against the question of what I needed to do to be loved by God. At every turn, I鈥檝e felt the shift in the conversation, the point at which the person looking in my face is no longer seeing me, no longer hearing my story, but instead has lifted away to the far less human place of debating ideas.

We all have a story. We all have pain and trauma, and we know the loss of Holy Saturday. In this way we are more similar than we are different. As you think about the LGBTQ+ people in your life, please start from this place with them. Please create space for their stories and their pain, even as I pray that space has been created for you here at 天美视频 and The Allender Center. For the moment, please come be with me. Listen to me. Bring your pain, and hold me in mine. If the Body of Christ means anything, it must mean that I need you now, and that you will continue to need me.

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To continue the conversation, you can also read Elliot Huemann鈥檚 vital plea that the stories and pain of LGBTQ+ Christians be heard honestly, Jennifer Fernandez鈥檚 thought-provoking reflection on the dangers of conflating the Church and Christianity, and Kate Davis鈥檚 hope-filled reminder that even when the body of Christ is wounded, it is not broken and it is not without hope.

In the wake of the UMC vote on Human Sexuality, I鈥檝e become increasingly concerned that we are losing the capacity to see relationally and to hear each other beyond social categories. I have noticed a familiar tendency, in what started as an international vote concerning a global denomination is turned into a particularly American discussion鈥攗niversalizing themes and inflections that are firmly located in our national political, religious, and social discourse. This shortchanges our understanding of the complexity of our human discourse and limits our ability to listen deeply.

To raise this point is not to intellectually diminish the real rejection and pain felt across the UMC denomination. The voices in this discourse matter, and I pray that we continue listening to the stories and honor the tears of those who have felt harmed and isolated by this vote, who have experienced the last few weeks as the deepening of an old wound. And may we also remember that there are voices鈥攂eyond and within our borders鈥攚ho do not easily fall into the familiar categories and talking points of our national discourse. This, it seems to me, is the complexity of the global conversation; even through our wounds, can we see those who have also been wounded? A relational hermeneutic invites us to cross ethnic, economic, gendered, and political boundaries to consider the contextual concerns of those outside the boundaries of our discourse.

鈥淓ven through our wounds, can we see those who have also been wounded?鈥�

The vote in late February was relatively close鈥�. Forty-three percent of those voting were international delegates, primarily from African nations, a majority of whom joined a coalition of conservative American delegates in voting for the Traditional Plan. This was very much a vote of global representatives, and the conversation around it is, in some ways, a microcosm of America鈥檚 present and historic relationship with the other countries represented.

To be clear鈥攖here are no easy, tidy takeaways from this vote, from the centuries-old dynamics that led up to it, or from the reactions and conversations in the wake of it. But perhaps that is, in itself, a meaningful reminder: in our discussions, responses, sermons, and even in our grief, may we allow room for the complexity and nuance that is asked of us to live as the global body of Christ.

My hope for 天美视频, and for the Church in America, is that we follow Jesus by continuing to wade into that complexity without resorting to caricatures or escaping to easy, familiar answers. May we be a place that struggles, a place that is willing to speak truth to systems of power that have caused harm鈥攍istening to and amplifying the voices of those who have been harmed, while also asking hard questions of ourselves and each other about the structures that undergird those systems.

As we continue unraveling this thread, it becomes clear to me that our engagement of the discourse following this vote cannot be separated from our ongoing engagement of cultural supremacy, and the intersections of whiteness, patriarchy, and colonialism. Because sometimes white supremacy is expressed through the violent racism of pointed robes and burning crosses, and sometimes it looks more like the implicit assumption that 鈥減rogressives鈥� in America are more advanced and are waiting for the rest of the world to catch up鈥攐r the more traditionalist assumption that the only civil or functional civilizations are of European descent. No matter how it is expressed, an assumption of supremacy disrupts our capacity to see relationally.

No matter how it is expressed, an assumption of supremacy disrupts our capacity to see relationally.

This means we must resist a posture that suggests the international Church鈥攑articularly churches in Africa鈥攊s too 鈥減rimitive鈥� in its social evolution, still behind the progress of the Church in the United States. And we must question the narrative that says delegates from African nations only voted a certain way because they ascribe to the theology exported to them by colonialist missionary practices. While it is true that the conflation of colonialism and mission is a crucial part of our shared history, that argument all too easily denies agency to other nations, denies that their own contexts, traditions, social mores, and histories also inform how they speak in these global conversations.

If you haven鈥檛 noticed yet, there are more questions implied in this essay than there are answers. That might not be a satisfying conclusion, but I do not believe we can arrive at meaningful answers without first sitting in the painful tension of these questions, in all of their history and nuance and complexity. And I don鈥檛 know how we do that as a global Church without falling into old patterns or reenacting old wounds鈥攐r if we can do that, in our present context. But I do know that a relational hermeneutic means there are certain things we cannot work on from a distance, and I know that we can turn toward each other now at a local, relational level. That is my prayer: that we would turn toward relationship in times of unrest and division, when it can be tempting to veer toward isolation over connection, or toward resistance without community.

And so I say again: May we be a place that struggles. May we listen to the cries of our LGBTQ siblings whose pain feels raw and urgent after this vote and the conversations in its wake. May we listen to the Church beyond our borders when they say that the Jesus they believe in looks different than what we鈥檙e asking of them. May we listen to each other, to the questions and stories that are too often silenced. And may we listen, all of us, to the voice of the Spirit that continues to call us together as the local, global body of Christ.

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To continue this conversation, we鈥檙e also sharing Elliot Huemann鈥檚 vulnerable plea that the pain of LGBTQ+ Christians be heard honestly, Jennifer Fernandez鈥檚 thoughtful exploration of the dangers of conflating the Church and Christianity, and Dr. Derek McNeil鈥檚 reflection about global complexity and the pitfalls of ethnocentric theology.

What a hopeful time for the Church in America.

It doesn鈥檛 look like it, at first glance (or perhaps even first dozen glances), but in the midst of grief, I feel the greater undertow towards hope. My tears are both lament and cleansing baptism.

The headlines in my newsfeed are focused on the fracturing, fighting, and forsaking taking place in the United Methodist Church. The rejection and righteousness felt by both sides. Grief is expressed, prayers offered, services held.

It鈥檚 the grief that strikes me, more so than the split. Many of the prayers and laments offered are from Christians who aren鈥檛 in the Methodist tradition. I鈥檓 also not Methodist, and have been processing the news each day with friends and colleagues who identify across a number of sexualities and come from various traditions, including some who don鈥檛 currently identify as Christian at all. From the depth of pain and grief expressed, you鈥檇 never know that we aren鈥檛 all Methodist.

Because despite centuries of denominational splits and rewritten polities and institutional barriers, we are all still the singular body of Christ.

鈥淒espite centuries of denominational splits and rewritten polities and institutional barriers, we are all still the singular body of Christ.鈥�

In the crucifixion, Christ鈥檚 body was wounded, but the bones remained intact. There are no breaks in the body of Christ. No fractures. No amputations.

Which isn鈥檛 to say there aren鈥檛 wounds. His wrists, his feet, the cut on his side, the crown of thorns鈥攚ounds abound. The wounds are not superficial; they go deep, and the nails go all the way through. Thomas is able to insert his fingers into the side of the resurrected Christ. The body of Christ is deeply wounded, but remains intact.

Which is why this week has hurt so much. We are still the body of Christ, and we feel the nail pierce our flesh, no matter the distance of denomination, tradition, theology, ideology. It turns out that the God who holds us together is bigger than polity, that words can deeply wound鈥攅ven unto death鈥攂ut cannot break us.

And this is what strikes me as hopeful in this season: the recognition of pain. Our collective feeling of our hurt鈥攏o matter tradition or sexuality鈥攎eans that we鈥檙e in touch with our common humanity. The shared lament offers us an opportunity to draw closer to one another across perceived differences鈥攅ven as it feels like our two hands are arm-wrestling each other.

Because I direct a program designed to cultivate pastoral resilience, the question keeps coming to me: What does resilience look like in the midst of this? It looks like grief. Like tears and lament. It looks like fully entering into grief, and the ability to do so because we know God is with us into suffering, through death, and on the other side. It looks like entering into pain with the expectation that the experience will form us.

The disciples didn鈥檛 get to fast forward from the crucifixion to the resurrection. They had to grieve through Holy Saturday, with the certainty that the man they had thought would save Israel was dead. I trust that God鈥檚 timing wasn鈥檛 off, that it was necessary for the disciples to go through this day of grief before the resurrection occurred. I believe God was inviting them to something formative on that day through their grief.

We don鈥檛 get to fast forward to resurrection or reconciliation either. But we can enter into grief with the trust that it鈥檚 formative, perhaps even necessary. And we can grieve with the memory that reconciliation and resurrection have come before: that Jacob and Esau embraced, that Joseph kissed all his brothers and wept over them, that salvation came even from a Samaritan. Sometimes years pass before reconciliation occurs, necessary time in which God does the formative work to make reconciliation possible.

May this season be an opportunity for us to identify as citizens of Heaven more primarily than members of any denomination or ideology. May we enter into the wounds of the body of Christ, recognize our shared pain, and proclaim together: 鈥淢y Lord and My God.鈥�

Rev. Steve Wolff is a pastor of a UMC congregation in Nehalem Bay, OR, and a participant in Resilient Leaders Project. I reached out to ask him how he鈥檚 doing in the midst of his congregation鈥檚 decision-making process. Steve has held different stances on LGBTQIA questions during his 35 years in the denomination, initially in the traditionalist group before moving into the open and inclusive one. I value Rev Wolff鈥檚 perspective because he鈥檚 a kind, connective soul who speaks with both strength and mercy, and I am grateful for these words he shared about his experience:

Since I serve to a progressive congregation in a progressive Jurisdiction, I have felt all along like I was pretty secure in what I felt and where I belonged. That said, I have been surprised at how much this vote has affected me. I have been part of this denomination for some 35 years, and have moved from initially being in the traditionalist group into the open and inclusive camp. It has been journey of discovery, but now I feel like I have moved from the United Methodist Church to the Untied Methodist Church and that we are adrift.

All this is preamble鈥攈ere is what I have been thinking about today. A dear friend of mine brought up the good Samaritan, wondering what should this general conference have done in light of that parable? That got me to thinking of a teaching from my old Seminary professor, Bill Mallard. What Bill pointed out to us was that Jews and Samaritans hated each other. Most of us know that, but somehow when we read the parable, we forget. So, in a parable told by a Jewish man, to a Jewish audience who would be identifying with the assumed Jewish protagonist, the one who comes to save is a member of their most hated group. At least part of what Jesus was teaching is that loving our neighbor is not just about us saving the hated person or class鈥攊t is accepting that the hated person is saving us. As I look at General Conference 2019, I see that the presenting problem is Human Sexuality, but much of it is about power: who will have the power to determine who is in and who is out, and both conservative and progressive voices are jockeying for this authority. How different would this look if we were to let the most abused and reviled groups save us? Now that would be an inspiring generosity. I can鈥檛 explain how, at least right now, but that idea of salvation by the least of these keeps me going.

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Here, Jennifer Fernandez, Assistant Instructor, argues that particular churches or denominations should not be equated with the whole of Christianity. Whatever your response when you are harmed by or disagree with an institution鈥攚hether you stay to grieve and work and effect change, or leave in search of a home elsewhere鈥攖he way of Jesus and the call to live as people of justice and relationality remain the same.

Let鈥檚 stop conflating church for Christianity.

There鈥檚 a Twitter post I read recently that reads, 鈥淚t is not helpful to tell LGBTQ United Methodists they need to find 鈥榓nother church.鈥� Home is home. The UMC belongs to them as much as it belongs to straight Methodists.鈥� My immediate thought was, 鈥溾�楬ome is home鈥�? What does that mean?鈥�

Sometimes 鈥渉ome,鈥� for some people, is a place where you are hurt, abused, told you don鈥檛 matter, and that your very existence is an abomination. If a child grows up in such a home, we immediately want to do something to change that child鈥檚 circumstances. We want to provide comfort, care, grace, and love. We demand justice. So why do we allow Christ鈥檚 鈥渉ome鈥� to do the same thing?

In Diana Butler Bass explains, 鈥淚n the decades before the Civil War, three of the nation鈥檚 largest Protestant denominations鈥擝aptists, Presbyterians, and Methodists鈥攕plit over slavery, biblical interpretation, and abolition. [鈥 As the churches divided over slavery then, so they are dividing over sexuality and gender now. Many of the biblical arguments and hermeneutic approaches once used to support slavery are now employed to reject the humanity, gifts, and dignity of women and LGBTQ persons. If you read 19th century sermons or tracts from Southern Presbyterians, for example, you only need to swap out a few words and you have a blog about how the Bible doesn鈥檛 allow women to preach or gay and lesbian couples to marry.鈥�

Too often we conflate all Christian churches and denominations for Christianity, when really they鈥檙e a bit of a Venn diagram. Sometimes they鈥檙e the same, sometimes they鈥檙e not. Our jobs as consumers of church is to know the difference. Christianity always demands that we call out injustice鈥攕ometimes church does this. Christianity always tells us to set a place at the table for everyone鈥攕ometimes church does this. Christianity urges us to live into right relationality that is reflective here and now of the kin-dom of God鈥攕ometimes church does this. When church and Christianity don鈥檛 line up, we the people get to say 鈥渄o better.鈥� Sometimes, demanding that church do better means staying and not leaving your ground, it means writing letters, it means protesting, it means finding new platforms and new coalitions, and sometimes it means leaving. It means saying, 鈥淚 will not let you hurt me in the name of God. I will not let you abuse me. I will not sacrifice my deep and true knowing of God in the name of a denomination that mistreats me.鈥�

Butler Bass reminds us that denominations are not the same as theology, and I agree. When we begin to idolize a structure like a denomination, when we begin to turn a blind eye to the suffering that those denominations are causing, we are sacrificing Christianity. That said, it鈥檚 painful work to acknowledge that 鈥渉ome鈥� isn鈥檛 safe. It鈥檚 painful work to acknowledge that we have been harmed in that 鈥渉ome.鈥� And it鈥檚 painful work to acknowledge that we have let others be harmed there and done nothing. Our denominational affiliations often comfort and give us a sense of belonging. They鈥檙e our Hogwarts house, where we feel seen and where we feel that we鈥檙e among others who experience and see the world the same way we do. Our denominations often give us a sense of tradition, a sense of rootedness. But sometimes, that鈥檚 not the case鈥攐r rather that鈥檚 not the case for everyone in that home. Home sometimes means a place where you have both sacred, beautiful memories and shattering, impossible realities. Home sometimes means a place where you once felt completely loved and accepted, and then when you came out/transitioned/wanted to get married/got divorced/wanted to be ordained, you were no longer loved and accepted. Home sometimes means a place where you have to hide who you are because if you don鈥檛 hide, you will be hurt, you will be told you are not God鈥檚 child. However, God鈥檚 home should never be this type of home. And if it means that people need to leave 鈥渉ome,鈥� sometimes that鈥檚 the very best thing they can do to save their lives and their faith.

鈥淲hen we begin to idolize a structure like a denomination, when we begin to turn a blind eye to the suffering that those denominations are causing, we are sacrificing Christianity.鈥�

That said, we need to acknowledge the black and white, dualistic thinking we鈥檙e enculturated into in this country and drag it out of the shadows鈥攍eaving a denomination or church that hurts is not the same as leaving Christianity, and knowing the difference requires a lot of slowing down on our part. It means doing the work necessary to know that Christianity is greater, deeper, and more expansive than any one denomination or church. It means learning to decipher as good consumers which places feed us and all those around us, and which say to some 鈥測ou can eat at this table,鈥� while it turns others who are hungry away. Knowing the difference is important to both our collective thriving and the thriving of Christianity itself.

In this time of deep pain where denominations fail to see the fullness of those in their midst, we should be reminded that home need not be the kind of place that hurts us. As Bishop Karen Olivedo, the first open lesbian bishop elected¹ to the UMC, states, 鈥淥nce you have seen and experienced how beautiful the Body of Christ is when all are included you can鈥檛 accept the rejection of some of the members of the Body.鈥�

We can find new places to call home, created family that sees the fullness of the divinity within us. We can hold the complexity of trauma and know that there are homes where we will be embraced, cared for, and celebrated. And we can be prophetic in our stance against systems which forget that faith opens one鈥檚 heart to the enormity of creation. However we choose to find home that feels safe, that feeds our faith, may we know that Christianity is more than church, and that we are Divinely loved.

¹Look her up. She鈥檚 got an interesting story to tell.

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